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To The “Best Friend” Who Decided We Aren’t Friends Anymore

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An open letter to my ex-best friend who decided we aren’t friends anymore.

Dear Old Friend,

At random times, I remember our 10-year-friendship and smile at the memories. When we were younger we always seemed to be occupied with trips to the city, birthday parties, shopping trips, baking all sorts of desserts and having philosophical talks. But now, when I remember all of the fun times we had, it makes me wonder why you suddenly stopped caring about me.

It has been over a year since the last time we really talked. Around that time you started ignoring my text messages and only ever responded to say that you were “too busy” to meet at our favorite coffee shop. I was originally in denial about what was happening. I didn’t want to believe that the girl who had been my best friend since kindergarten didn’t value our friendship anymore.

It took about two months for me to notice that you really didn’t want anything to do with me. I’m not going to lie, I was devastated when I figured it out. You were the one person who knew everything about me and never seemed to judge me, so I felt betrayed to know that you were not going to be there when I needed you again.

To this day, I still don’t know what I did wrong. It was pretty horrendous of you to decide, out of the blue, that we were done. You cut me off knowing that I would put myself through hell trying to find out why. And I’m not sure how you’ll feel to find out that after a year of agony, I finally got my closure.

SEE ALSO: To My Ex-Best Friend

Looking back now I can see that what you did may have been mean and hurtful, but it made me stronger. I can see that you were a fool to drop me like that. You were my best friend and I would’ve done anything for you. When you felt attacked and alone, I defended you. When people were cruel to you, I could almost feel your pain and would do anything to take it away. It is sad to know that we were once so close and are now strangers. But I have moved on and obviously, you have too.

Since you’ve been gone I’ve branched out and have made a bunch of amazing new friends. I am careful about who I call my best friend now, but I try to be there for everybody. I would still be here for you too if you tried to make amends, but I don’t know if I would ever be able to trust you enough to be as close as we were again. When I lost you I also lost all of my trust, but I found myself.

 

So I guess what I’m trying to say is thank you. Thank you for the 10 years of friendship. Thank you for memories that I wouldn’t trade for anything. Thank you for leaving and letting me rediscover myself. And most of all, thank you for teaching me that it is important to not be dependent on anybody. I love you more than I hate you for that. So, thank you.

 

Love,

Someone who never stopped being your friend

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7 Prompts For Journaling Every Day Of The Week

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Sometimes you just need to write it down.

Yeah I know, the last time you journaled was probably Mrs.McCarthy’s third-grade class. However, journaling can open your eyes to ideas realizations and aspirations. Keeping a journal to scribble down notes, or even just dreams can help you determine what you really want in life. Here are a couple of inspirational prompts.

 

1. Monday: Write five things you truly enjoy about yourself.

This social media driven society has taught us to compare ourselves to others. This prompt reminds us to step back and really appreciate what draws others to us.

2. Tuesday: If I had no fear today, what would I do?

Sometimes we stop ourselves from happiness because we’re scared. This prompt lets us realize that some of our goals are very attainable, we just have to put ourselves out there.

3. Wednesday: What can I do to nurture my mind, body, and soul?

This prompt pushes us to reflect on how kind we are to ourselves. It is important to take care for yourself.

4. Thursday: What is one thing you learned this week?

Usually, we walk through life worrying about our future and we don’t stop to recognize the little things.

5. Friday: What is the dominant emotion in your life right now?

This prompt is good when you’re feeling down. It challenges you to look introspectively so you may deal with your emotions in a healthy way.

6. Saturday: Who made you feel good this week?

Yes, journaling is an independent task but you can still appreciate your friends while doing it.

7. Sunday: Dear ___, this has been weighing me down….

This prompt will let you release steam and feelings you have been too scared to say. Even if you never give this letter to that person, it’s a good start to try to let it.

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Yes, I’m An English Major Who Doesn’t Read Much Outside Of Class

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Strange concept, I know.

Yes, I’m an English major. I’ve loved reading ever since I was little, and I’ve devoured thousands of pages of words in my lifetime from various genres that have all impacted the kind of person I’ve become today. Yes, I study English because I love reading and writing. I don’t mind essays. I don’t mind having to finish an entire book in one sitting.

 

But I don’t read for pleasure much outside of class.

Why?

Because I simply no longer have the time.

When I was in high school, I could finish three books in a week while splitting my time between assignments and exams. But now, while I’m at college, I’m stuck in a very different situation.

I’m no longer reading just for my English courses. I’m reading for my biology course, for my sociology course, and all of the other courses I’m taking.

I’m no longer reading the things I necessarily want to read. I’m reading what I have to read.

Instead of picking up a fun New Adult novel at the bookstore, I’m spending hours upon hours taking notes on classics like “Wuthering Heights” or trying to make sense of Milton’s “Paradise Lost.” I’m now reading to learn—more so than I ever was before.

Yes, you learn from everything you read. But there are very specific techniques and rules that I’m learning from the works I’ve been assigned that are unlike anything I’d pick up outside of class, and it’s necessary for me to devote my time in the right place.

I can’t focus on books that have no direct impact on my academic career. I need to focus on the pieces that will get me the degree I want.

I still love reading. I always will. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be an English major. I wouldn’t spend my days analyzing texts and writing essays if I didn’t love everything about it.

The sad reality is that my life is too chaotic at the moment to juggle reading for pleasure and reading for my degree. I have to make a choice.

And I’m making the choice that will allow me to one day get a job that will allow me to spend my evenings reading the books I want to read.

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Why You Should Start A Hobby In College

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Because reading hundreds of pages of academic reading is exhausting. And so is scrolling through TikTok.

This is a response to “Yes, I’m An English Major Who Doesn’t Read Much Outside Of Class”

When people used to ask what I did for fun I didn’t really know what to say. In high school, I worked and ran cross country and track outside of classes. For most of my college experience, I didn’t have a lot of time outside of classes, work, and hanging out with friends to spend by myself, developing hobbies. Sure, I liked working out and watching Netflix, but other than that I didn’t really do anything for fun.

I came into this year, though, with new year’s resolutions blazing. One is to read at least one book every month, another is to learn some basic Japanese, and another is to learn how to crochet. I’ve incorporated each of these goals into my routine in some way, even if it’s spending twenty minutes working on them each day.

 

But why should you learn a new hobby during one of the busiest times of your life? Isn’t scrolling through social media after a day full of classes a good way to destress? Lowkey, I would agree that sometimes it is. However, there are many advantages to making time in your day to work on something you’re passionate about or want to learn more about!

Hobbies that require creativity, whether it’s painting or writing, help you have a different perspective and experience new things at school and work. Hobbies that involve physical activity create chemical changes in your body that allow you to de-stress. Even if the hobby doesn’t require physical activity, getting a short break from classes or homework to do something you enjoy can refresh your mind and help you prepare to handle challenges in the future.

Hobbies can allow you to explore different subjects without the stress that classes can sometimes put on you. As the original author notes, it can be hard to dedicate your time to a hobby that will have no direct impact on your academic career. As a psychology major, the content of my classes can sometimes be repetitive. The most recent book I read was about a man thriving in the Arctic with his dog. How cool is it to grow your knowledge outside of your comfort zone and take a break from what you study all the time? Perhaps a hobby that is different from reading would be best for the original author who reads all the time, like painting or jewelry making.

Hobbies can help increase your confidence too! The journey of growing through your hobby and becoming good at something gives you a sense of purpose outside of class and work. Even more so, you may grow outside of your comfort zone and become more confident about challenging yourself.

 

As a senior this year whose graduating in May, it’s nice to finally have more time to spend with friends and work on my hobbies due to my more open and flexible class schedule. Although the looming post-grad crisis is sure to make an appearance at some point this semester, it comforts me to know that I’ll have a diverse set of hobbies to continue to learn and grow, both as a person and through different skills.

 

Here are some places to start:

121 Creative Hobbies To Try in 2023

9 Unplugged Hobbies To Try In 2023

27 Hobby Ideas That Are Both Cheap And Fun To Try In 2023

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